rainbows after the rain

often in this short life we encounter with tests and troubles. it can take place randomly and squeeze into our life as it wish, anywhere possible at any given time. sometimes it arrives at the most unpredictable moment and place!the time we least expect any trouble to come, destiny had chose that exact moment to deliver the "parcel" for us to unfold and deal with. sometimes the fate just change its mind in a second and destiny become so cruel in just a glance (as what we do think).a yes, thing happens for a reason. its very well said. the tears and cries happen in everyone's life. its just a matter of time and reason behind it that differ. what we have to do is to think positively and take all the time we need to grieve. shout it out loud. cry. share your sadness with others.your regrets. the frustration. the pain. the hurt. but don't forget to make a stop. endure and live the life. i know it sounds so easy and nice in words but to make it working is a very damn hard thing. but do we have another option rather than to struggle to be back on our feet and kick our royal butt out from the mess? oh yes. we do have the option to stay forever in the misery and stop living.so choose.which one is better. if we have a broken heart, don't throw the heart away. even its broken, yet still working. we just need a very very very powerful glue to mend it again. no one says it can be done in a day. no.plenty of time required for this purpose and time is all what we need. slowly put the pieces back to it's place. put it all together to the place it belongs, into you. to keep our mind with the bright side all the, it is recommended to just think that God must have a very strong and valid reason why the people of your past didn't make it to your future. who knows the departure of Mr. Wrong is the arrival of Mr. Right. i read this somewhere in a novel. hehe. make yourself fully occupied with interesting activities. the one you never try but deep inside you had wished you make some time to do it. chase your dreams. you have all your time, energy, attention etc etc all to yourself. when we're in the love scene, we tend to give more attention and make excuses for the one we love more than what we pay to ourselves. so, utilize all the space and time we have to pamper the body, to treat the mind and go for fun stuff. don't forget the therapies session. (who talk about seeing psychologist? what i mean is fooooood therapy. shop therapy. chocolate therapy...(whooaa i even get excited typing this.) often also, we receive condolences and advices from whose dear and near. be patient. calm down. stop crying baby (your eyes look like Panda Bear already). you're just being tested with heavy rains. wait for a while because when it stops, you will get a very beautiful rainbows. i heard this version of words of wisdom and uplifting once when i was in really gloomy and teary day. this was the very sentence that made me alive again. thus, i wait in hope for the cloud to dried out, finish all the water it had contained for ages and for my beautiful rainbows to appear. yes, happy ending doesn't only exist in fairy tales. it happens in reality as well. now, i am so happy living my life on the top of the rainbow and walking away from the past. why rainbow? now this question keep on bouncing back and forth in my pretty little head. enough to occupy the space available for random thoughts and made me writing this. perhaps people been using it as a metaphor because of its beauty and matter of factly,its real. easy to relate to our everyday lives. rainbows can happen as long as there is sunlight and water droplets. it can be because of the rain, droplets from fountain, water spray, or even on the wave of the ocean. see, happiness also can happen anywhere, even in the place you least expect it to be! (likewise the trouble)so, cheer up and hold on for the rain to stop, for the sun to shine and for the awesome rainbows to make its grand entrance into your life!!! life is short, be alive while you're still ALIVE. don't ever ever let anyone to stop you from enjoying your time and be happy.its something that no one have the right to take it away from you. if someone wants to turn his/her direction from you and walk away, it is HIS/HER lost! not yours. if you're just too scared to delete all the sweet memories you had had in the past, just keep it our brain is designed to keep things. but don't afraid to make new ones! cheer!